Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
In the movie, Peter separates himself from everyone else by showing the initiative and calling others to follow with the phrase, “come on, let’s go.” How many of us can say the same thing? The idea and motion of initiative is what separates those who lead and those who follow. Initiative can be defined as “The ability to act on your own; the ability to act and make decisions without the help or advice of other people.” It can further be defined as the “Introductory step. The first step in a process that, once taken, determines subsequent events.” In other words, it is a key characteristic in the life of a leader because it encompasses the idea of moving in a direction, taking the “first step”. Without the “first step” one is left standing along with everyone else waiting for someone to move and follow. In a sense, showing initiative awakens oneself amongst others who are sleeping. Let me explain:
If we look at the life of Jonathan in the Old Testament (1 Samuel 14) we catch a glimpse of a wonderful example of initiative. He literally moves forward, showing initiative while being surrounded by men who were sleeping. Even his father, Saul – the King of Israel was taking a nap. While amongst sleepers under a pomegranate tree, Jonathan awakes and calls his armor bearer towards him and says, “come, let’s go… (1 Samuel 14:6)” Did you catch the fact that the rest of the men were sleeping under a tree? That is right they were asleep, paralyzed because they did not know what to do. They lay motionless under a pomegranate tree, following the lead of their king Saul, who was afraid. He figured that his defeat at the hands of the Philistine’s was immanent. Therefore, instead of showing initiative and taking a step forward he lay complacent and did nothing. His perceived outcome caused him to react out of fear instead of moving forward with initiative. Sound familiar? We do this often, don’t we? We do nothing instead of doing something; we lay motionless, afraid of acting – afraid of showing initiative.
Initiative is an act of faith, stepping out into the unknown. It is a contagious act, compelling others to follow prompting them to faith as well. Notice that, Jonathan’s armor bearer did not hesitate when Jonathan called him. In fact, he took it one step further and responded to Jonathan be informing him that “I am with you heart and soul (1 Samuel 14:7).” What a response! What an encouragement! What a bond that was bound by a divine love that inevitably led to a divine moment!
Now do you see why this is such a distinguishing characteristic in the life of the leader? The ability to act and respond causes movement, movement that is compelling – drawing others to follow. Jonathan did not move alone, he had a companion for his battle. His nameless armor bearer faithfully responded by following Jonathan into battle where they slay “some twenty men” in about a half an acre (1 Samuel 14:13).
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Here we are continuing a series entitled, What I learned in Seminary. You can catch up with the links below.
As I reflect back on seminary I constantly find myself drawn to Jeremiah 9:23-24. This passage has forever been etched into my heart. It serves as a reminder to be that it is not about, "Mark Harris," it's about God. We have a tendency in our world and culture to draw attention to ourselves by laying claim to our human abilities. We are often drawn towards a lifestyle of "bragging" in order to get noticed and draw attention to ourselves. Read the words of the prophet Jeremiah to see what he wrote on this very subject:
wisdom or the strong man boast of his strength or the rich man boast
of his riches, but let him who boasts boast about this: that he
understands and knows me, that I am the LORD, who exercises
kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these
I delight," declares the LORD.
The words speak for themselves, don't they? Let them sink in and penetrate your heart so as to help you identify areas in which you boast in. Is it your ability to make money, the gadgets you own, the car you drive, the job you have, the places you been, or the education you have that cause you to boast, drawing attention to yourself rather then God. Note, that if we are to brag and boast there is only one who we are to boast in, our Lord. Instead of boasting in the temporal human things of this world we are to boast in the heart of God. What is the heart of God? In this passage Jeremiah reveals three aspects of it: kindness, justice and righteousness. You see it's not about us and the things we boast in; it's about God and his heart for kindness, justice and righteousness. Let us be about his ways and his heart instead of our own selfish ways. After all, it's about Him not you.
Introduction
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan and leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
Lesson #4: To consume or be consumed
There is a tendency (notice I said tendency and did not use an all inclusive term here, although others might, I do not) within Christian evangelicalism to approach church as a competition where we seek to offer newer and better programs and events so that we may attract more visitors. As a result, those who are attracted to the church view it as a "vendor of religious goods and services" where programs and messages are communicated and consumed just like a cup of coffee, a dinner out and a movie. Consumerism is the ultimate manifestation of the "self" or "individual" pursuing only those products that are beneficial to the self. "Consumerism is individualism on steroids. It is the logical end-product of living for self. Consumerism paves the way of worship of self, and self worship leaves us alone with the object of our devotion." When taken to it's ultimate form consumerism leads to complete isolation, away from community and fellowship.
I don't know about you but, I don't want to voyage through life and this world all alone. The pure thought of it makes me sick. I long to be in community with those around me, just as God designed me. Our longing and pursuit of community comes from the communal and relational God who created us. When we say that God is a communal and relational God, we are simply stating that He is not an isolated God but that He is in a reciprocal relationship within the Godhead as the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
With this in mind, let us long and join in community with those around us instead of isolating ourselves on an island. Let us be consumed by God and the divine love, which flows from above (Romans 5:5). If we allow ourselves to be consumed (instead of consuming) we will be open to God's transformational work in our lives as we study His word in community with those around us. In his book, Transforming Church, Kevin Ford highlights the differences between consumerism and community. Here is what he has to say:
- Community requires being missional; consumerism demands internal satiation.
- Community shares responsibilities greater then self; consumerism demands entitlements.
- Community expresses itself in service; consumerism feeds and endless hunger.
- Community leads to a shared freedom; consumerism leads to singular addiction.
- Community actively creates; consumerism passively devours.
Introduction
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or to be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
Lesson #3: People or Programs
I have done much pondering and thinking on my education and how it has and has not prepared me for ministry. It seems as if people are on either side of the argument in regards to a seminary education as preparation for full time ministry. The most common argument against a seminary education is that people in seminary become more book smart then anything else. In other words, seminary students become learners of books and programs rather then people. I have even heard numerous professors in Seminary claim that Seminary turns out more scholars/teachers that turn to education instead of training pastors. Interesting thought huh? I don't know if it is entirely true, but there is sure some validity to the claim.
Throughout Seminary I have asked myself, is this about people or programs. If it was about people, I sat back and took it all in. If it was about programs, I continually related it back to people and the "real world". Here are some thoughts on programs and people:
- Focusing on programs offers us an easy excuse for not trying and not "getting dirty" as we get involved in the lives of others. In other words, we can blame our lack of success and effort on the program because it did not work out the way it should have.
- Focusing on programs encourages and fosters a consumeristic mentality of individuals seeking the best program (product) in town.
- Focusing on people allows us to create and initiate programs that are unique to our church body instead of copying programs from another church.
- Focusing on people mandates that we continually turn to God for guidance as we shepherd and guide our flock (no seminary training or other education prepares us for this, only God).
Introduction
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or to be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
Lesson #2: The Church as the family and body of Christ
I remember vividly sitting around the campfire at Westminster Woods Camp Grounds nestled in the Sonoma County Coastal Redwoods during family camp singing “We are the Family of God.” During the chorus there is an opportunity to vocally declare your allegiance to the words of the song. “We are the family of God, YES! We are the family of God, and he has brought us together to be one in Him that we might bring light to the world.” The chorus was always my favorite because everyone would jump up and declare, YES! This memory has stayed with me for many years because it’s true. There is no doubt about it, if you have accepted Christ as your Lord and Savior you are a member of the family of God; now let’s get up and declare it like the good old days! The Teacher’s Commentary explains that in the third chapter of Ephesians there are three images which assist us when we think about the church. Two of these images are brought into focus in the midsection of Ephesians. The three images that are communicated to us with the intention to give us a vision of who we are as Christ’s church are those of: a body; a family; and a holy temple. The three images share a common emphasis. Each of them reminds that we are one with our brothers and sisters, even as we are one with Christ. But each of the images also has its own distinctive emphasis:- The biblical picture of the church as a body reminds us that we are called to a life of good works. Even as our own bodies act to carry out the intentions of our minds, so the body of Christ acts on earth to carry out the intentions of Jesus, our living Head.
- The biblical picture of the church as a family reminds us that we are called to a life of love. As the human family is the context for growth and intimacy, so the family of God is a context in which God’s love is expressed to welcome each other and to help each other grow.
- The biblical picture of the church as a temple reminds us that we are called to a life of holiness. As a temple reminds us of the worship of God, our calling as a holy temple is to bring God praise and honor and glory.
Our God in heaven has crafted a unique and distinct organism; the body of Christ! He is the composer and originator of the body of Christ. The body of Christ is diverse and it is full of many individuals with many gifts and abilities. Anyone who is in Christ is a part of the body of Christ. No one body part is superior over the others. It is Christ who is the unifier of the diversity of the body of Christ. The body of Christ is diverse and is full of many individuals with many gifts and abilities. Anyone who is in Christ is a part of the body of Christ. No one body part is superior over the others. It is Christ who unifies the diversity of the diversity of the body of Christ. More then thirty different spiritual gifts are mentioned in the five New Testament listings (1Cor. 12:4-10; 1 Cor. 12:28-30; Eph. 4:11; Rom. 12:6-8; 1 Peter 4:10-11). The Bible is quite clear that every Christian is gifted for service. All of the gifts that God has given us are closely tied to the Christian virtue of love (1 Cor. 13) because it is love which binds us together and it is love which spurs to reach out in Christ’s name.
The members of the body of Christ make-up the church; a community of men and women who have responded to God’s offer of eternal salvation. If the church looses sight of this fact, an eventual deterioration and demise will occur. “The world needs the church to be the church so that the world can know that God loves the world and that redemption is therefore possible. The church is a sign of hope in the world that redemption is therefore possible. The church is a sign of hope in the world, but if it does not remain distinct from the world it loses its ability to point to the transcendent God.” The church must maintain it true identity as defined by Christ or else Christianity will become just another religion overcome by relativism and pluralism. A religion which seeks to conform to culture instead of seeking to transform culture through Christ’s love and the power of the Holy Spirit. It is imperative for the church to maintain it’s standard and to be active participants in the promises of God, in Christ. “God makes a covenant with his people and separates them from the world as his own possession, and vouches himself for this covenant.”
Introduction
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or to be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
Lesson #1: Above all else
One of my classes this past semester was a preaching class. One can't be enrolled in a preaching class without delivering a message or two during the course of the semester. To maintain structure and a sense of order my professor assigned us to deliver a message from the book of Ephesians. He set aside the last three weeks of school so that we would all have an opportunity to be graded and critiqued by a seasoned veteran and our classmates. He divided us into three groups and sent us on our way. The best part about all of this, for three weeks I sat and listened to God speak through my classmates as they delivered their messages from the book of Ephesians.
If you know anything about the book of Ephesians then you know that it can be broken into two sections. The first section (chapters 1-3) deal with doctrinal issues while the second section (chapters 4-6) deal with practical issues. It is in the middle of the second section that we find some familiar passages centered on the relationships between a husband and wife and parent and a child. I sat in class on my last day listening to a message on the marital union (Ephesians 5:22-33) and parenting (Ephesians 6:1-4).
Above all else, I am called to be Godly husband and father. Above all else, I want to be known and remembered for the husband I was to Heather and the father I was to Maya and Finley. Above all else, I want everyone to know that my wife and daughters mean more to me then any job I may have, any title I may bear, or any other privilege or honor I may be given.
Introduction
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or to be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
One is closing while another is opening....
Two and half years ago, Heather and I moved here to Portland not knowing what was to come. What we encountered was two and half years of ups and down, during which we grew more then we could have ever imagined. With that in mind, I will try to articulate and share with you some of the many lessons that have I (and we) have learned. Consider this an introduction to a series entitled, “What I Learned in Seminary”. What will follow over the next few weeks are brief summaries of the many lessons that were learned. It must be noted, the lessons learned were not necessarily new. Some of what was learned was built upon an already existent foundation while the others have established new foundations for me to build upon in the future. Here is what to expect:
Lesson #1: Above all else
Lesson #2: The church as the body and family
Lesson #3: People or programs
Lesson #4: To consume or to be consumed
Lesson #5: For mine or yours
Lesson #6: Peter Pan & leadership
Lesson #7: Rainbow vs. pot of gold
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